26 Jan 2021

Herbs and Lifestyle Tips for Work-Life Balance

We live in challenging times; for many, balancing work, childcare, parental caretaking, and overseeing children’s education requirements is exhausting. Over the past decade, we have continued to experience the erosion of boundaries between work and home life. Yet, today, the impact of a worldwide pandemic has compounded the challenges of maintaining this work-life balance as never before. The level of stress that adults are experiencing is validated in a 2019 survey on Stress in America which found nearly half of adults have had trouble sleeping and more than three-quarters report physical or emotional symptoms of stress manifested as headaches, fatigue, and sleep disturbance (American Psychological Association, 2019). If you are feeling increased stress and anxiety, know that you are not alone. 

It probably doesn’t surprise you that continual stress and anxiety can affect almost every organ system in our body. For example, stress can affect brain-gut communication, triggering digestive issues, like bloating and discomfort (van Tilburg, n.d.). Ongoing anxiety, which continues to activate the nervous system, causes long-term wear and tear on the body (Berntson, n.d.). Lastly, stress can contribute to long-term consequences for the heart and circulatory system, increasing the risk of hypertension, heart attack, and even stroke (Burg, n.d.).

Many suggestions for balancing work and home/personal life assume that we leave the office at the end of the day. With many folks working remotely, we can no longer put the office out of sight and out of mind, prompting us to look for more creative solutions to ensure a healthy work-life balance.

Doing yoga can be helpful for work-life balance

Taking Time for You

At the beginning of every air travel flight, a flight attendant asks passengers to place the oxygen mask over their own mouth and nose before assisting others. This is an analogy for the importance of self-care, and now more than ever, this rings true. Self-care is an essential strategy for work-life balance.  Not only does this benefit you, but it has a positive impact on your family. 

So why is it so difficult for us to prioritize our own needs?  For some, self-care feels like an indulgence or a selfish act. Yet, it is a critical component of maintaining balance for ourselves. One aspect of self-care is self-compassion. Recent research in self-compassion points to a lower level of emotional turmoil and a higher level of relational well-being (Yarnell & Neff, 2013). Self-compassion starts with moving towards balance, not perfection; it is about doing the best that you can without criticizing or punishing yourself for not doing things exactly the way you imagine they should be done.  Taking even one step forward towards extending compassion to oneself can help to shift our emotions and reduce stress. 

In addition to cutting ourselves some emotional slack, self-care can include a variety of methods to address stress and move towards a more balanced state. Stress reduction techniques constitute a safe and effective approach for reducing stress (Larvogli & Darviri, 2011) and include mindfulness practices, psychotherapy, exercise, deep breathing techniques, journaling, sketching, laughing, and dancing. Employing even one of these strategies can make a noticeable difference in easing stress. It’s helpful to integrate simple, small steps over a short period of time, like a week or a month, and to congratulate yourself on any successes you achieve. 

plate of salad greens sitting on a table

Foods for Stress and Anxiety

We all know that a diet of whole grains, vegetables, and fruits is a healthier choice than eating simple carbohydrates found in processed foods. Complex carbohydrates are metabolized more slowly and therefore help maintain a more even blood sugar level, which creates a calmer feeling. Yet, for many, feelings of stress result in poor food choices that lead to not feeling great, which exacerbates the situation. Reversing this trend is key to recognizing the link between our brain, digestive system, and emotional health since a large percentage (about 95%) of serotonin receptors are found in the lining of the gut (Martin et al., 2018). 

Recent research has looked at how key nutrients can help to reduce anxiety (Naidoo, 2019).  Magnesium has shown beneficial results in cases of mild anxiety and premenstrual anxiety (Boyle et al., 2016). Foods rich in magnesium include leafy greens, pumpkin and chia seeds, and almonds (National Institutes of Health, n.d.). In another study, consuming probiotic foods such as yogurt, sauerkraut, and kimchi pointed to a reduction in social anxiety (Hilimire, 2015). Finally, there is growing evidence that a diet rich in antioxidants may help to ease anxiety (Xu, 2014). Amla berries, dark berries, goji berries, kale, dark chocolate, and pecans are all high in antioxidants and would be a good addition to a healthy diet.

Herbs for Stress and Anxiety

Lucky for us, there are numerous herbs that can help soothe our stress and calm anxiety. In developing an action plan to support our nervous, endocrine, and digestive systems, we look to three herbal actions, namely, nervines, adaptogens, and carminatives. What is an herbal action, you ask? An herbal action indicates the effect that an herb has in the body. You can read more about that here!

Today, herbalists employ nervines to strengthen and feed our nervous system and support calming and quieting of nervous tension (Tierra, 2003). Adaptogens restore normal tone and function to the adrenal glands and improve the body’s resilience to stress (Tierra, 2003). As stated above, the connection between stress and digestion can disrupt the gut’s nervous systems, which in turn influences the brain and mood (Tilburg, n.d.). The use of carminatives can support the digestive system, helping to soothe and settle tension in the gut wall (Hoffmann, 2003). 

Oat (Avena sativa)

Oat (Avena sativa) growing in the wild can be helpful for supporting work-life balance

It is hard to imagine a more nutritious and therapeutic grain than oat. The fresh milky tops of oat harvested when bursting with their milky latex (before hardening into the seed we know as the oat) contain high levels of minerals, vitamins, and polysaccharides (Easley & Horne, 2016). Milky oats gently address exhaustion, an inability to concentrate, and a loss of libido (Tilgner, 1999) through their broad-acting support of the nervous, endocrine, musculoskeletal, and cardiac systems (Holmes, 2007). Such a nutritive and gentle herb can be used long term for those experiencing mental and physical exhaustion, irritability, and lack of focus (Easley & Horne, 2016). 

Oatstraw, the stem of the oat plant, is considered milder than milky oat in terms of nervous system support but is packed with minerals and other phytoconstituents. Primarily used for its restorative effects, oatstraw is a common ingredient in nutritive teas (Holmes, 2007). A soothing oatstraw infusion bath is relaxing to sore or painful muscles or can be used as a wash for skin conditions (Holmes, 2007). 

Read more about Avena sativa here and here

Barley (Hordeum vulgare) 

barley can be a helpful herb for supporting work-life balance and nerves

Barley tea, an infusion made from roasted barley grain, is a staple across East Asia. With its toasty flavor and slightly bitter taste, it is the perfect tea for an early evening beverage. Barley tea contains both melatonin and tryptophan, helping to ease stress and aid in relaxation (Meng et al., 2017). Tryptophan, an amino acid tied to sleep, synthesizes serotonin, a neurotransmitter essential in regulating sleep and mood (Silber & Schmitt, 2010).  Similar to the effects of eating a turkey dinner, which also contains tryptophan, barley tea helps to take the edge off and aid in relaxation. 

Tulsi (Ocimum tenuiflorum)

tulsi growing in the wild

Also known as holy basil, tulsi is a highly aromatic herb revered in the Ayurvedic herbal tradition. Tulsi teases the senses and lifts the spirits with its fragrant volatile oils, supporting both the nervous and digestive systems. In Western herbalism, tulsi is classified as an adaptogen and viewed as a general tonic (Easley & Horne, 2016). Its pleasurable and spicy volatile oils aid in its ability to soothe stress, enhance cerebral circulation and mental acuity (Easley & Horne, 2016). Tulsi is considered a warming stimulant and aids the digestive system in addressing indigestion and gas (Pole, 2003). Tulsi may interfere with blood glucose regulation and people with diabetes should only take it under the guidance of a qualified healthcare practitioner (Gardner & McGuffin, 2013). 

Read more about tulsi here and here

California poppy (Eschscholzia californica)

california poppy flowers can help support greater work-life balance and relaxation

Found throughout much of the United States, California poppy has been used in Western herbalism to ease anxiety without narcotic or addictive properties. Long used by herbalists for addressing stress, insomnia, and nervous tension, it works by regulating the response of GABA receptors in the brain (Easley & Horne, 2016). All parts of the herb can be used either as a tincture or tea to help normalize the nervous system (Easley & Horne, 2016). California poppy provides a gentle nudge assisting in easing tension and stress. California poppy has an alkaloid that can be stimulating to the uterus and is therefore contraindicated during pregnancy (Tierra, 2003). 

Eleuthero (Eleutherococcus senticosus)

eleuthero growing in the wild

When I think of an herb to nurture energy, I look to eleuthero. Russian scientists looking for added support for athletics conducted extensive research on eleuthero, which has traditionally been used as a tonic for increasing energy and fortification against fatigue, insomnia, and anxiety (American Botanical Council, n.d.). Eleuthero promotes oxygen metabolism in the tissues and organs, thereby increasing stamina (Tierra & Tierra, 2017). Eleuthero is contraindicated when taking antibiotics or during pregnancy (Tierra & Tierra, 2017).  

Find some tasty recipes here and here!

Reishi mushroom (Ganoderma lucidum)

reishi mushroom growing in the wild

Known as the “spirit plant” by Taoists, reishi mushroom is considered an elixir of life (Tierra, 2003). Monks and spiritual sages have used reishi to deepen their reflective practice for centuries (Whitechurch, 2018). In Western herbalism, we look to reishi as a general health tonic, with research pointing to its ability to improve sleep, heart function, and chronic pain (Easley & Horne, 2016). 

As is often the case, research confirms traditional and contemporary usage.  Reishi contains pharmacologically active constituents including triterpenoids and polysaccharides, which support the heart, modulate the immune response, and protect against free radical damage  (Boh et al., 2007).  Reishi’s calming and revitalizing actions enhance our inner stamina. It is safe to use on a daily basis (Gardner & McGuffin, 2013).  Learn more about reishi here and learn how to make a double extraction here

Lemon balm (Melissa officinalis)

lemon balm growing in the wild

Such a gentle herb, lemon balm is both a nervine and carminative.  Used by adults and children, lemon balm soothes anxiety, gladdens the heart, and brightens the mood.  Its aromatic lemony scent supports the nervous system, helping to ease sadness and depression, enhance sleep, and, if that wasn’t enough, aid memory and concentration (Easley & Horne, 2016).  As a carminative, lemon balm soothes digestive upset from anxiety or depression (Hoffmann, 2003). Lemon balm is used with caution during pregnancy due to mild uterine stimulating effects (Holmes, 2007).

Learn more about lemon balm here and here!

Herbal Recipes for Supporting Balance 

nourishing infusion for stress and anxiety

Nourishing Stress and Anxiety Overnight Infusion

Infusing herbal tea mixtures overnight is an easy way to create a powerful nourishing infusion to be consumed the next day. All herbs in the recipe are dried. 


2 tablespoons milky oat (Avena sativa) tops and/or straw
2 teaspoons fennel (Foeniculum vulgare) seed
1 tablespoon lemon balm (Melissa officinalis) leaf
2 teaspoons California poppy (Eschscholzia californica) aboveground parts
1 tablespoon tulsi (Ocimum tenuiflorum) leaf
1 teaspoon ginger (Zingiber officinale) root
1-2 teaspoons raw honey, optional

  • Add all herbs to a heat-proof, 1-quart canning jar.
  • Bring 4 cups water to a boil, then pour boiling water over the herbs, filling the jar.
  • Cover, let infuse and cool a bit, and, when still warm, add honey (if using).  Cover again and let sit overnight.
  • Strain out the herbs in the morning and enjoy throughout the day, either at room temperature or warmed up.

powdered maca in a bowl

Adaptogenic Powder Mix

This versatile powder mix is packed full of adaptogenic herbs to strengthen the immune system and promote a calmer state.  Each part can be whatever measure you prefer based on the size batch you want to make – 1 teaspoon, 1 tablespoon, ½ cup, 1 cup, etc. It can be added to smoothies, beverages, or baking mixes.


3 parts maca (Lepidium meyenii) root powder
2 parts eleuthero (Eleutherococcus senticosus) root powder
1 part shatavari (Asparagus racemosus) root powder
1 part ashwagandha (Withania somnifera) root powder
1 part reishi mushroom (Ganoderma lucidum) fruiting body powdered extract

  • Measure and add powders into a 1-pint canning jar, cover, and shake thoroughly.
  • Store in a cool, dark place.
  • Use 1-2 teaspoons a day.

golden milk in a cup

Golden Milk Using Adaptogenic Powder Mix

A warming nourishing beverage, golden milk is the perfect vehicle for using Adaptogenic Powder. In this recipe, oat milk is the base ingredient used to regulate blood sugar levels, dietary fiber, and cholesterol levels (Onning et al., 1999), but feel free to use another milk of your choice. Yield: 1 cup.

1 cup oat milk
1 teaspoon Adaptogenic Powder Mix (above)
1/2 teaspoon turmeric (Curcuma longa) rhizome powder
1/2 teaspoon cinnamon (Cinnamomum spp.) bark powder
1/4 teaspoon cardamom (Elettaria cardamomum) pod powder
Pinch of ginger (Zingiber officinalis) rhizome powder
Pinch of nutmeg (Myristica fragrans) fruit powder
Freshly ground black pepper (Piper nigrum) fruit
1 teaspoon virgin coconut oil or ghee
1 teaspoon honey
  • Add adaptogenic powder mix and spices into a small saucepan
  • Pour oat milk slowly into a saucepan using a wire whisk to create a smooth mixture.
  • Bring to a simmer for 10 minutes to let the flavors meld.
    Add coconut oil or ghee and honey and whisk to combine.  
  • Pour into your favorite mug and enjoy!

In Closing,

The good news is that if you feel overwhelmed and anxious in the moment or about the future, there are lifestyle, food, and herb options available to support you. Focusing on herbal support to soothe nerves, improve digestion, strengthen endurance, and support immunity is a simple step that you can take towards emotional equilibrium and achieving a better work-life balance even when you are juggling so much.  

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